First, and most important, you need to trust your gut, trust your instincts. It is the same as the feeling you get walking into a dark alley or spooky house — the hairs on the back of your neck stand up. I doubt you can consciously will those hairs to stand up, no matter how hard you try. But if you go into a creepy situation, they stand up. Somewhere down in the basement of your brain, in the primitive, primal brain stem, a few neurons fired because of clues from your environment. Those hairs standing up on your neck and the goosebumps on your arms are your subconscious mind trying to warn you to pay attention.
14 Signs You Are Dating a Loser and a Time Waster
12 Signs The Guy You’re Seeing Is A Loser Who’s Wasting Your Time | Thought Catalog
Love is a beautiful thing. We all desire to love and to be loved. It happens even to the strongest of us. But if you want more, and you are the ONLY one funding the relationship and ensuring that things go well, then you might be dating a loser. A loser has no future ambition. Or, to be fair on him, he has pipeline dreams.
10 Signs You’re Dating a Loser (He Doesn’t Respect You)
We have all been there at one time or another — fallen head-over-heels for someone, despite an abundance of red flags waving in our face. Dating a loser can result in months, if not years of frustration, confusion, tears and tantrums. It also has the potential to cause physical or emotional damage and can have a long-lasting effect on your future relationships. A loser is usually very quick to tell you that he loves you. Often, within weeks of dating, he will be talking about your long-term future together.
I don't know about you, but I have dated several undesirable people in my life that made my friends wonder, what the hell are you doing? It's like, "I know, Rachel. He only takes me to Jack in the Box for every meal.